At this year’s graduation ceremony, Marin Waldorf School alum and current parent Jake Pearl (Class of 2005) spoke to graduates and their families. We share his beautiful reflections below.

Hello everyone, my name is Jake Pearl. I want to give a big thank you to the school and Megan Neale for giving me the opportunity to briefly say a few words to the departing 8th grade class.

In May of 2005, my friends and I sat right here in these chairs where you are now, for our 8th grade graduation from Marin Waldorf School. We were excited but also nervous about the next chapter, stepping into high school and facing life beyond Waldorf.

I’m going to tell you five things that I learned throughout my life that wish I had known on that day.

First, be patient with the rest of world and the people you meet. The people you are going to encounter didn’t receive all the gifts that you have. They were not raised in the same spirit-nurturing environment that you have been. They won’t be the same; be patient with them

Second, always remember that you were raised to shine. Today from you I’ve seen poetry, moving speeches, and musical performance. Most 8th graders can’t do these things, not like you can. When a volunteer is called for, remember, you are the one. When it’s time to risk, time to be vulnerable, time to sing your song and speak the truth, many will be afraid to do so, but you will not. A bright light has been slowly nurtured in you while you have been here. Shine it for yourself, and the world. Do not be afraid. It’s who you are.

Third, you were built to lead. In the same spirit, the places, people, communities, and institutions you will touch are all thirsting for leadership. Your experiences here have prepared you for that role, whether you realize it or not. Step forward, show them the way, call on those around you to share their gifts, make them safe to do so. When you find yourself in an aimless group, full of uncertainty, and everyone is wondering who to follow. Remember, you are the one.

Fourth, be grateful to your parents and teachers. They have done so much more than the average parents and teachers. They have sacrificed and pledged extreme effort and dedication to give you the most supportive education possible, and in this they have risen above most. It’s not their job to tell you this, and they never will. I had to have children of my own before I could see everything mine had done. Realize it now, keep a warm heart of gratitude for them.

Last, keep your Marin Waldorf friends. These relationships will last forever if you nurture them. You will make friends in high school, college, and beyond, but your MWS classmates will forever be sacred, their loyalty and love for you will always there. Keep it with you.

Welcome to the Marin Waldorf School Alumni Association. We are so glad and proud to have you. Congratulations.

June 6, 2025

"You Were Raised to Shine" — Reflections From an MWS Graduate